tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7700894621471344950.post1675046103896313556..comments2024-01-11T22:43:16.003+00:00Comments on Pre Raphaelite Influenced Art: John Roddam Spencer Stanhope - Patience on a Monument smiling at Grief, exh. 1884Hermeshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00968366076064269729noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7700894621471344950.post-10844381170422192122010-11-03T11:12:33.391+00:002010-11-03T11:12:33.391+00:00New to me Lucy but it comes from Twelfth Night, Ac...New to me Lucy but it comes from Twelfth Night, Act 2, Scene 4. I think my (kind) parents had other words for when I was lazy.Hermeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00968366076064269729noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7700894621471344950.post-15318235248501554392010-11-03T10:35:31.118+00:002010-11-03T10:35:31.118+00:00Really? Really, really, is this where the saying c...Really? Really, really, is this where the saying comes from or is it an illustration of the saying or is there a poem behind it?<br /><br />In my family, when I was growing up, people were always being described as 'like patience on a monument'. Occasionally the 'smiling at grief' bit got added but generally not. It meant something like 'hanging around doing nothing'. It was an affectionate term but also suggested you were momentarily dippy and, perhaps, ought to slough off inertia or vagueness and get on with something useful.<br /><br />LucyLucy Corranderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13743561298706555813noreply@blogger.com